I never understood cheating. If your relationship isn't working, either try to fix it or end it cleanly so both you and your ex can move on to something hopefully better.

cheating definetly,there shouldnt even be a debate about this,spying does barely any harm.

It's more complicated than that, of course cheating is worse than spying, but it is just human nature. You can love someone like they r a part of you, but sometimes "animal instincts" take over and you cannot control ur self. I assert, you can be a victim of cheating like a drug addict is a victim of addiction. U don't mean to betray or hurt someone, it's not premeditated, it just happens. To only sleep with the same person for the next 60-70 years just goes against out nature.

Well, they're both a lot of fun but cheating... a little more so.

Cheating is definitely worse. It's no different than signing a contract and completely ignoring one of its biggest terms.

Cheating is more than worse... People wouldn't spy on you if they dont feel that they are not cheated upon, right? I mean, I'm sure there's a good reason why people spy on others. And I dont see the good reason behind people cheating.

There wouldn't have been need for espionage if they hadn't been cheating in the first place. Nevermind the moral implications of cheating, of course.

Now there are exceptions. People who spy on their lovers without any cause or suspicion, with the intent of knowing where they are at ALL times, well...

That's just being a stalker.

Cheating really hurts the other spouse or partner. The spouse or partner really feels hurt inside.