This post is only so that I can add "the man" as a tag. Guess what the next post is going to be ;)

This post is only so that I can add "the woman" as a tag. I wonder if after God took Adam's rib Adam was like, "Why you do that for?" And God said, "I'm making you a companion." And Adam said, "What shall I call this companion?" And God said, "It's your job to classify everything so you figure it out." And when Adam saw his new companion he said, "Woah!!! I think I'll call you Woah, man!" but over the year it was shorten to woman ;)

It's a give and take situation where gives and the other takes ;)

and then they switch as to who gives and who takes (especially in a .... no, I'm not going to say it ;).

The connection between them makes the rules which will form when there bond gets stronger.

As far as I'm concerned both people make the 'rules' in any relationship. Both have needs and wants that should be respected by their partner. That's what a relationship is...it's a partnership not a job where you must abide by the rules set forth by your employer. I wouldn't be in any relationship where my partner set down the rules of it. Life is a two way street and sometimes you have to yield the right of way so that things go a bit more smoothly but for the most part, both are traveling in the same direction, albeit at different speeds.

I think that in our society it is unusually the male- just because that's the way it is, and we don't think about it. There are societal norms that we usually follow, which usually put the male into a power-position. Why do people ask who them man is in a gay relationship? Because the male is pretty much accepted as the person in charge in a relationship.