What's the best strategy for building a sound, solid relationship?
You can try having sex first (risking the possibility of unwanted sex and STDs) and then try to become friends. That way if you can't become friends, you at least got some :)
Or you can become friends first (risking the possibility of never, ever, getting out of the "friend zone") and then have sex (thus reducing the risk pf unwanted pregnancies and STDs).
Oh..., and by the way..., F-budies doesn't count.
Sex, then friends
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Friends, then sex
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How much time do you really expect to be in bed with the other person? Unless you're a superman, you're only going to be able to keep it up for a limited amount of time each day, and then you have to be able to look at that person and have conversations. In a long term relationship, you're going to spend more time not-screwing than you're going to spend screwing. It makes sense to make sure before hand that you're not going to want to rip their face off and rub salt on their exposed flesh every time they open their mouth to speak. Side: Friends, then sex
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I've tried it both ways and this is by far the best way. That way, in your later years, when you can't even remember how to have sex (even though people will tell you that it's just like riding a bicycle, you'll be certain that it doesn't involve pedaling) you at least have a friend to share the rest of your days. Side: Friends, then sex
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A relationship that has nothing to base itself on except sex is pointless. It can't last unless there's a basis for a mental attraction there as well as a physical attraction. The only way to determine that basis is to become friends with that person beforehand. Side: Friends, then sex
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