of course..why hadn't i expected that answer?

haha :),,,,

i see your reason and i think it is a good point.

but it would still be wrong.

think about it the other way round, if you were in the position that they were.

i think that i'd probably end up killing myself if i knew that no one on earth wanted me.

if someone is clearly not wanted living, i wouldnt go and kill them. i'd just ignore the fact that they're there.

(personal experience between me and my little annoying brat of a brother :p)

no it is not fair.

but the woman has alot of work carrying and looking after the fetus. she is the carrier of the fetus and delivers the fetus.

i think that if the man does not want the fetus, it should be discussed between the two partners.

but i dont really understand how a man feels as though he is enslaved by the fetus.

the couple of the fetus should discuss on what they want. if there is not an agreement between them, what would happen then?