this is useless.. assuming one's opinion of their own definition of rough.. rough is not a discrete definition, a woman can say the "roughest" attribute to have is a monthly period, but another man can come along and say that theirs is having a penis. If their definition of rough consists of only those attributes, then one cannot judge whether or not one has it worse than the other because they will never have the ability to experience that... unless someone can in some form? lol