It the same with my friend. He never have a choice. He wanted to be normal. But he was betrayed by his sexual feelings. But still back to topic. Gays didn't have a choice. They were born like that.
It is fun but it comes with work and money. It not easy but your wife is happy. But still it hard. I am just happy that it is over, Until 10 years later when we renew it.
I get tagged all the time. It not that big to me. I like tagging other people.